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- The Culture of Pakistan:
- An Interview with
- Sohail Shah
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- Introduction to Sociology, MTW 10am
- Mrs. Linda Cook
- February 15, 1995
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- I am always fascinated with other people's cultures. The New York or Californian culture
- always amazes me although these states are in the United States. These areas of the nation
- seem very different than Texas. I do not have any friends that have recently moved here
- from another culture so, I set out to my neighborhood Stop N Go. The clerks at this
- convenience store are all from other countries. One clerk whom I have talked to many
- times, named Sohail Shah, always spoke of Pakistan. I often listened to his stories of
- being in the Karachi police force or of Pakistan's different customs. Sohail Shah, a
- thirty year old male clerk at the Stop N Go located on North Braeswood near Chimney Rock,
- has been in the United States for four years. He moved here with his wife and two children
- to "escape punishment". Sohail claims he was in the secret police protecting the president
- when many governmental changes were made. Many of his co-workers were put in jail for many
- years for reasons he would not openly discuss. He has to work two jobs because his wife
- does not work. According to Mr. Shah, she will never work. In Pakistan, women are to stay
- home and raise children. Currently, Sohail is observing the holy month of fasting called
- Ramadan. This is observed during the ninth month of the Islamic year and is ordained by
- the Koran, the Islam holy book. The fasting begins every morning at dawn and ends
- immediately at sunset. Muslims cannot eat, drink or smoke at all. In the evening, regular
- activities resume. The Islam driven culture of Pakistan shapes everyday life. Each day,
- all Muslims pray five times. The first is before sunrise, the second around noon, the
- third in the late afternoon, the fourth immediately after sunset, and the fifth before
- retiring and before midnight. They face the Kaaba, which is a small box in Mecca. No
- matter where a Muslim is, he will pause, face the East, and pray when it is time. When
- Sohail lived in Pakistan, he lived in a house with his whole family. As an adult, he lived
- with his parents and siblings as well as his wife and children. The house was large enough
- to accommodate over fourteen people. All the women stayed home to keep up the house and
- prepare meals. If the women were to go to the market, they would completely cover
- themselves except for their eyes. Women were not to be seen in public without covers.
- Also, the wives wait for their husbands to come home before eating. The Koran approves of
- polygamy, allowing up to four wives. If a Pakistani decides to marry a second wife, his
- first wife must approve of her. Shah says polygamy is not very common in Pakistan. A
- typical day in Pakistan for Shah was to wake up before sunrise and pray. His wife would
- prepare breakfast for him before he left for work. He would leave for his police work when
- an armored truck stopped at his house. He was an officer in the police force before being
- promoted to the secret police. Shah rode around Karachi, the largest city in Pakistan, in
- the truck with twelve other rifle carrying policemen the entire day. Although there is
- nearly zero crime in Pakistan, the threat of terrorism keeps the police busy. The crime
- situation is based on severe punishments such as amputation of a hand for stealing. In
- addition, the people of Pakistan have a very strong conscience. People leave their homes
- and businesses unlocked while away. When Sohail returned home, his wife would have dinner
- already made for him and his entire family would eat when all the men returned from work.
- While the men are away, the women take care of the children, bake bread, and make pottery
- or baskets to sell at the market. His large family would then discuss different topics of
- interest before retiring. I found that the funeral arrangements are somewhat strange.
- First, women may go to the wake when a person dies but may not enter the cemetery. When a
- person is buried, he or she is dressed in white and wrapped in a woven mat made of long
- leaves or blades of grass. Then mat is then tied at each end which looks like a giant
- sausage when finished. A type of perfume is sprayed on the resulting package to keep the
- decomposing body's smell in check. The Pakistanis do not embalm the deceased. The body is
- then, if money allows, placed in a casket. If the family can't afford a casket, the corpse
- is buried in the grass mat. The financial status of the body's family also affects the
- depth of the hole the body will placed in. Some people are buried on level ground with a
- concrete slab constructed around them, some are six feet down. I believe Pakistan has very
- good points in their culture. I enjoy hearing of the nearly nil crime rate. After seeing
- Houston's crime rate rise year after year, it would be nice to live in a society free of
- crime. I also like the idea that the family is very close. I don't know if my entire
- family could live under one roof, though. During the holidays, tensions build when my
- whole family is together(grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins). The situation of the
- wife staying home to keep up the home, prepare meals and take care of children is a
- positive characteristic. When my parents were young, their mothers stayed home to do the
- same tasks. I believe if the economy in the U.S. improved, the mothers would stay home, if
- they were still married. The way of conducting funerals is sort of peculiar. Wrapping the
- body in a grass mat that is tied shut at the ends is bizarre by my standards. I would
- prefer the casket approach to funerals. My feelings towards the Pakistani culture could be
- defined as xenocentric. I feel that the United Stated was once family focused and crime
- free. I would like to live in a culture such as Pakistan's but without such extreme
- religious influence. I do not agree that women should be covered up in public or that they
- are not allowed into cemeteries. For Pakistan to be my ideal culture, it would have
- somewhat the same norms but freedom of religion and equality for women.
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